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Attraction is the idea that we all draw things, people, opportunities and even our ‘higher’ selves to us. The trick is to attract the best of these, not everything. Along that line, here are some of the things that limit or slow down one’s natural attractive powers.

1. Lie to yourself or others.

Not telling the truth, kidding yourself, living a pipedream, exaggerating, pretense.

2. Overload your life.

Cramming your life so full of things that there is not room for anything new to flow in.

3. Accumulate what’s not needed.

Seeking to grab whatever you can, whenever you can.

4. Mislabel.

Mistaking your ego for your Self. Sometimes the line is confusing.

5. Assign too much significance.

Making things more important or significant than they really are.

6. Become dependent or attached.

Becoming attached to a person, situation, goal, substance, belief, idea or job to the point where you live for it instead of relating with life itself.

7. Ignore what life is bringing you.

Focusing on what you think you should be focused on instead of what life is telling you to focus on.

8. Acquire Attractiveness.

Trying to be naturally attractive by emulating others or just ‘doing’ the Attraction Principles instead of just being yourself.

9. Neediness.

Needing something and not being aware of what it is, or by not admitting the need.

10. Don’t trust yourself.

Not responding immediately and fully to inklings, intuition and instincts.

Thomas J. Leonard, often known as the father of coaching, passed away suddenly on February 11th, 2003. His seemingly endless ideas included the creation of CoachVille, and the International Coach Federation, as well as numerous books, teleclasses, programs, and workshops on coaching. One of Thomas’ signature creative structures were these top ten lists, a way of organizing his thoughts in an easy to read format. Visit Best of Thomas to learn more about the many different works of Thomas Leonard

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